KinkConsultant

I didn't discover kink, it found me. From the age of five, I knew I had a strange obsession with spanking. I didn’t know why it felt like a secret, only that I couldn’t share it with anyone. Without someone to talk to, I spent years thinking I was a freak. A weirdo who had to protect her kinky secret at all costs.

Everything I learned came from the internet or porn, and most of it left out the most important parts: consent, trust, and communication. Years later, I became a professional dominatrix and saw firsthand how misunderstood kink really is. People weren’t broken or bad—they just wanted connection, expression, and safety.

Today, as a certified sexologist and relationship coach, I help people understand that kink isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom—it’s about self-awareness, respect, and choice. My goal is to replace shame with education and curiosity with confidence, so everyone can explore who they are safely and responsibly.